"....Will you accept this rose? "

Dayyyum! Those are the words that makes millions of girls melt when said on national television. So yesterday, watched the Bachelor and got into quite a debate about the show with a friend.
Allow me to explain what it is for those who have never watched it before.

So every year there is a guy, with 25 eligible single bachelorettes. Not just a guy, they switch it up every seasons, so it would be a bachelor, then after a bachelorette would have the same privileges...she would be with 25 different guys. So its not unfair!

The show basically starts off with the guy or girl whoever is single and meets all. Im just going to stick with the guy being the Bachelor because it already is on tv. Next season, it will be a girl and 25 guys...etc etc.

So this guy. His name is Jake. And to many, he may seem like the "ideal" guy! What is good about him is he was a previous constestant on the show before but got regected. And now it has the chance to meet his one+only. So at the beginning, 25 girls appear to meet him. They all talk, get to know each other etc etc try to find similarities and stuff.. But there is an elimination round. Where you know when you dont get that instant connection with someone.... you're like "yeah... thats not the person..." sort of thing, it can go both ways that feeling. Well out of the 25 woman, sometimes 5 get elimated, or 10 ...etc they all get a rose to stay.
I know lots of people go on and on and on about how controversal it is and stuff... but really... you get to see someone get to find someone. And in all honesty its friggging cute! All their romantic dates they go on . Dayyyum . then again people justify how its a horrible negative blah blah blah influence and stuff... But honestly, it is cute. They dont do innappropriate things, you see basically gentlemens at their best!
So yeah .... as the numbers decrease, you really start to see the intensity between the people because you see people actually falling in love with eachother. And its not desperation. I mean its the same case for anyone out there seeking to find someone, is that desperation? Just because this one is on the media and stuff.... its exactly.the.same.
Well... yesterday, Jake and this girl. I swear I know he would of picked her at the end. The end is he or she, whoever is the bachelor/ette they choose someone and propose to them. It is that intense.... like its even money, were talking about MARRIAGE! YOU DONT JOKE WITH MARRIAGE! anyways. Him and this girl I swore he was going to pick her at the end. But she had to choose between her job that they have been hollerin at her to get back or she can stay. But there is lots of factors to consider.

I dont know.I just like the show... its just happy. I mean they do the same as any other couples, they have to go out, meet the parents near the end and get to know each other. Sure there has been some success stories and some non-successful, it may of been them or not. But ultimately we can't blame them for if things doesn't work out. You can't just mash two people together..... love is absolutely unexpected. Hence the movie Leap Year ^_^